I believe that this is not due to secretrebel or onebyone finding me unbearable to live with, so much as a change in financial circumstances meaning secretrebel doesn't financially require a lodger any more, and wants more living room in a smallish house. Of course my lovely little internal voice is telling me its because I am hateful and impossible to live with, but I shall not be listening to that voice - it never helps.
I really need a stable long term arrangement. Suggestions very welcome at this point. Must be somewhere I can keep a cat.